#190 Things worth spending money on (café edition)

What else would you add?

Aug 05, 2026

One of the joys of life (especially in summer) is enjoying your time at a beautiful café. Whether it’s mid morning or a few hours after lunch, it’s always nice to walk into a pretty spot and just recharge, tastefully caffeinated of course. Especially when it’s a spot where you’re a regular. Where the moment you walk in they already know what you’re gonna get. It’s a special feeling and something I never take for granted.

That being said, there are a number of cafés in this world that charge a premium for nothing. You want to make sure your dollars go toward an establishment that’s doing things the right way. Here are some things worth spending money on, café edition.

Freshly pressed juice over carton concentrate

I’m of the belief that every self respecting café (or restaurant) should be making freshly pressed juice if there’s a juice offering on their menu. It’s not that difficult. All you need is a little elbow grease!

Side note, if you’re wanting to make good juice at home invest in a stainless steel mechanical juice press! It’s the best way to make fresh juice in the comfort of your own home.

Pastries / sourdough made from scratch

The best cafés either partner with a local bakery or make their pastries and bread from scratch. There’s nothing worse than those spots that clearly sell frozen pastries at a markup. It just doesn’t feel right and you’re almost always not getting your money’s worth. I will always support the establishments that do things the right way! I believe it’s worth paying a premium for real pastries, especially in spots that go out of their way to use things like good French butter instead of cheaping out on a canola oil blend. Also… think about it. A lot of these bakers get up at the crack of dawn to make these little beauties for us. The least we could do is vote with our dollars.

Real milk

Cafés that drop dairy entirely are usually not that good. Support your local cafés that have good, real dairy milk! Though I have to say plant based milk option that I wish more cafés will use is coconut milk - or even to offer coconut water in some of their coffees! I tried a coconut latte once and it was incredible. Especially in the afternoon during a hot summers day.

Beautiful non-plastic cutlery

Now, this is something that’s becoming a rarity. More and more cafés are opting to use disposable whenever they can. Paper bags for pastries over a plate with a nice fork and knife, disposable “to go” cups even when you’re having it there. I always make it a point to support the café that still sticks to their guns and gives you good cups, plates and flatware. There’s just something about sipping your piccolo off a small ceramic cup that enhances the experience. When you think about it, the idea is the same as the whole QR code menu thing. These are little things in the grand scheme of things that “increase efficiency” for the business but it deteriorates the customer experience, however so slightly.

A nice ambience

The best cafés are full of natural light. When it’s dark out, they’re well lit with warm yellowish amber. I don’t get cafés that install white bright LEDs that just blind your eyes. It just doesn’t feel good. I want to sip coffee, enjoy a warm pain au chocolat in an ambience that feels like a cool friend’s living room. It’s better to spend money at the café that takes this into consideration. It’s not just more beautiful either, it’s better for your circadian health.

Friendly staff

This is one I wasn’t sure whether to include. Some might say that this comes across as somewhat pretentious and don’t get me wrong - I’m not saying you deserve to be treated nicer just because you’re paying more, say in a more upscale café. I’ve just found it to be such a taint on the experience in those small circumstances where you meet a barista who just does not want to be there. When it’s clear they just aren’t in the right headspace for any form of human interaction (and hey, I don’t blame them sometimes!). BUT, I have to say having friendly good people who emanate a positive vibe is such fun to be around. Sometimes, this starts from you!! Always take the initiative to start the hello, ask about their day, without being too intrusive. Just be nice. Especially if it’s a café that you intend to visit more often. Regular maxx.

Great coffee

You just know when a café cares about the coffee that they make. They almost always have a signature blend (or blends that you choose from) and are usually enthusiastic about recommending you something you should try, especially if it’s your first time. All I’m going to say for this is that good coffee is almost always worth the premium it demands.

Intentional music

I don’t really care about the music in a café unless it’s outrageously loud or just playing songs that just don’t fit the vibe. It’s always nice when there’s a well curated playlist in the background that’s at a volume that lets you talk, with songs that add to the ambience.

What would you add? What does a café (or even restaurant) have that would make you be willing to spend a premium at? Leave your suggestions in the comments below!

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Please make them and eat them greedily with lots of powdered sugar and salted butter.
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If you were to externalise some of the feelings you have before a match - crying, yelling, nervous breakdowns - your opponent would see you. So, you better pull yourself together.
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